If she decides to help you in such a case, and you don't follow through, she'll figure that you didn't really mean it, and you'll never get her to help you out in such a fashion again.Ĭommunication, my friend.
Then, if you do manage to get her to give you that additional push, no matter if you feel like it anymore or not, you need to do it, especially if she's rather cool on the subject. So, you'll need to convince your wife that it's something you absolutely want to try, but that you'll need her help, regardless of her views on the subject. Well, there are women out there who enjoy having their men go down on them and clean up what they've deposited inside them, but there are only a very few who are willing to talk about it, judging by the other threads of a similar bent I'm a part of here on the boards.Īnd having some degree of encouragement makes a big difference as far as being able to 'do the deed,' since no matter how much we believe we want it before we've cum, once it's out of our bodies, we don't care anymore.